Nowadays, more and more people are getting involved in toxic relationships. More and more people are trying to navigate this space with walls up, but I always say the same walls you have to protect yourself or the same walls blocking your blessings.
I want to give you the best relationship advice ever. This advice is going to be changing lives for couples. This advice is going to help you in your relationships, and help you receive exactly what you looking for.
More and more people are trying to navigate this space with walls up, but I always say the same walls you have to protect yourself or the same walls blocking your blessings. The reality is this, you cannot fully give love and receive love, with walls up, you are hindering the flow of love, in and out of you, because you’re holding on to fear. You’re holding on to anxiety. You can keep replaying what you’ve been through, rather than resolving and healing from it. That’s not going to work. You got to let it go. You got to be willing to be fully vulnerable if you want to receive love. So this brings you to what exactly is the best piece of relationship advice for couples ever, and that’s to love with all your heart and hold nothing back.
Now for some, you might be thinking, Oh, hell no, because last time I tried that, it got me hurt. Let me explain something to you. Loving with all your heart isn’t that got you hurt. Dealing with the wrong person is what got you hurt yourself. Trying to be in a relationship, it’s before you or they were truly ready is that got you hurt, but letting the love fully come out of you, that is not the hurtful part.
But here’s the reason why that has to happen and it’s the best advice you could ever embrace. If you want to truly experience, a relationship, and its full potential, you got to let it all out. You’ve got to love with all your heart. And in doing this, you can expose what that other person is really about.
When you hold back, you validate them holding back. And now trying to determine and see where they stand becomes a lot more clouded and because more difficult to read. And it also becomes harder to read because you’re trying to evaluate things through a broken lens, which blurred your experience. When you haven’t healed your vision is blurred, you can’t see things straight.
So, first, you must create the love within your heart through healing. You must create the love within you through connecting to God, connecting to your spirit. When you fill yourself up with love, now you can see everything more clearly in a relationship. And now you go into a relationship, giving your all, holding nothing back.
Not taking tabs of what you did because in giving everything, the other person has two options, step up to the plate, or get the hell on that’s it. They cannot validate their lack of effort. They can’t validate their walls being up when you are letting it all flow out. So, if you want to see
What they care about, love them with all your heart, but here’s the beautiful thing. If they show themselves to be on the same plane as you, to want to match your energy and attention, match your effort, now, you two will have the most joyful relationship because you’re both giving your all to each other.And if they’re not going to step up to the plate, you’re gonna expose them so fast that you won’t waste, months and years in dead-end relationships that only damage you further and keep you in a negative cycle of emotions. Stop holding back, let it all out, love, within your heart and you will get to experience relationships at a new level, but that not just love with other people. The great relationship with you and God, because in that is where you will find your peace, find your happiness, shine your lights that you can receive the person who is truly best for you, and no longer waste your time on people who are not for you.